Anthony J. Berret, S.J. Funeral Homily Feb 24, 2026 RIP
The Jesuit community is in mourning. We counted on Tony’s faith and wit to
continue engaging us especially those of us in the retirement years. And I was not surprised to hear that, even
the day before his death, our retired brothers with whom he lived in Baltimore
at Colombiere were enjoying his company.
We Jesuits and others here now offer our condolences to his family,
especially to his niece Elizabeth.
Condolences also to his Sunday worship community, the Villanova Faith and Life Community of which Tony was a loved member, and
condolences also to his many colleagues in the broader community of Saint
Joseph’s University. As a Jesuit
educator there he inspired so many lives.
There are only a few of us Jesuits standing from the Saint
Joseph’s Prep classes of the fifties where I first met Tony. In particular Tony’s classmates: Joe Lacey who
was living with Tony through the last two years or so. And also classmate Rob Currie, who might be
here except for his love for the people of Nicaragua, a country that will not
let Jesuits back in should they leave.
Though I am not a direct classmate, I first met Tony when I was
a freshman at St. Joseph’s Prep and joined the band, Tony already a trumpet
player a year ahead of me and my clarinet.
There were some talented musicians in that class. We struggled when I was a senior to match the
good music of the year before. And
Thirty-five years ago Tony introduced me to his Villanova Faith and Life Community and sometimes I was blessed to join with him
in worship or substituted as celebrant when he was otherwise engaged. I will continue to value those
relationships. All of them loved Tony
and many are here with us today.
Tony chose three
wonderful readings and a psalm for today’s farewell. All of them with that rythym of music and
poetry that he enjoyed discovering in all of his study of literature. He is now in that space of celebration that
Isaiah describes. We hear Tony’s
voice here encouraging us in the words of Isaiah: The LORD God will swallow up death forever.
The Lord God
will wipe tears from every face;
This is the Lord,
let’s be glad and rejoice in his salvation!”
And of course, the Psalm chosen reminds us of
Tony’s jazz masses. In the middle of
his jazz Mass he would take off his chasuble, pick up his trumpet and join the
musicians to make a joyful noise as the Psalm 150 instructs:
Praise
God with the blast of the ram’s horn!
Praise God with lute and lyre!
Praise God with drum and dance!
Praise God with strings and pipe!
The second reading from
Second Timothy uses some language from competitive sports and military combat. “I have fought the good fight, finished the race, and kept the
faith. “ The language, you might
think, doesn’t quite fit. But if you
have looked at his 300 page book “Music in the Works of F. Scott Fitzgerald”
you will find how diligent Tony was in finishing that opus. There are notations to about 250 song
references in Fitzgerald’s literary texts and there is a painstaking
bibliography. He fought a good fight and
finished that race.
He was correctly proud of his ability to capture the attention of
students in all of his teachings about modern American literature to capture
the attention of students. He knew that
music was always in their ears and so references to music and poetry in texts
helped them appreciate novels and short stories.
Let me refer to just one of the songs that Tony
discussed in his book about Music in Fitzgerald’s works. Among the vast variety of musical references
is a passing reference to a song with a particular Catholic theme. Fitzgerald refers in his popular novel “The
Great Gatsby” to a song from 125 years ago called “The Rosary.” A song called “The Rosary.” Its theme is the
enduing power of love even in a time of loss. “I tell each bead until the end
on which a cross is hung.” (repeat) Tony prints some words of the text and some musical
notation in his own work. But in
Fitzgerald’s text one reads simply of hearing the song’s melody in the
background, no song text and to the reader, of course, no sound. But the song’s words and sounds have a
meaning to which Fitzgerald eludes with the simple naming of the song. Tony writes that this song with the beads
and then the cross fits its particular context in the novel. He writes “the song expresses the loss,
grief, resignation and sacrifice that Nick applies to Gatsby’s death.”
I think here that Tony reveals his own commitment to telling each
bead until the end knowing that all of us must join the Lord in his death. Yes, 86 years of telling the beads of life.
Each bead..Yes. We Jesuits
remember in the past few years that Tony, while at Manresa Hall, was present
each day for Mass. Well, true he did not
arrive in time for the communal recitation of the rosary itself but he was
engaged in the celebration of the Lord’s death and resurrection when the telling
of the beads came to its end. And he
was always engaged at the Mass There
were times when he would offer an amendment to the homilies the celebrants
presented. One day I praised Jesus’
response to the devil’s temptations in the desert when He declared to the
devil, “I will not put the Lord my God to the test.” After Mass Tony reminded
me of times before a work of healing when Jesus did something like testing the
Father, that is, praying to his Father as he began the healing. And the Agony in the Garden was at least a
question of hesitation. We might argue
about these as tests but Tony was always protective of Jesus’s human nature.
Another example of this: I
remember another time a few of us were discussing Jesus’ disregard for his
parents when at 12 years old he quietly remained in the Jerusalem Temple when
Mary and Joseph and the rest of their party began their journey back to
Nazareth after a Feast of the
Passover. That thoughtless disregard
for his worrying parents suggested to Tony that the child Jesus when younger
was quite capable of acting like a typical troublesome kid. Tony kept the faith but not with all the
standard piety.
And finally the gospel, this one also with poetry and song. And here another testament to the confidence
that Tony had in God’s care for him. I
am moved especially with this text because it was one that we shared together
at a Manresa Hall Mass. At that Mass there
were remarks indicating some relief and satisfaction that the gospels included
experiences of older men and women, people like Simeon and Anna, who were
thrilled to hold in their arms the child Jesus. Yes, we think of the usual disciples, both
men and women, as the young who could follow Jesus on foot all over Judea and
Galilee. But what about the older among
us and those who struggle to walk, let alone walking distances? Here Simeon takes our place and sings a kind
of song supporting our call to faith:
“Now, master, let your servant go in peace
according to your word,
because my eyes have seen your salvation.
(You prepared this salvation in the presence of all peoples.)
It’s a light for revelation to the Gentiles
and a glory for your people Israel.”
And this is Tony’s final gift to us. We could well spend all day telling of his
gifts to individuals and communities. He
now lives in the full light of God’s salvation. As he filled our ears with song and our eyes
with the light of faith, let us hear his song in our ears and may his light shine
in us.

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